nyx
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LocktownDog said:Now for a mood swing! As the mother of my children, I never want to see her hurt in any way and will help her and support her as much as my emotional state will allow. I can't see myself ever hating her (even after months of her lying to me and the kids). And maybe someday I'll find someone who I can love as much, if not more. Perhaps I won't mess things up a second time.
Well that right there proves that you're the better man. I wish my ex-husband had one smidgen of the feeling for me that you have for your wife. I definitely get no compassion or support, even though he is the one that left me. But I can tell you one thing: if your gut says she's seeing this guy, even if she says she's not--go with the gut. I wish I would have listened to mine. My ex STILL refuses to admit that he's with someone else, even though all signs point to it, and heck, we're divorced so it doesn't even matter anymore. Some people just can't face the truth that they've done something bad. They deny it to others so they can convince themselves. But you'll come out of it ok, because you are the better man--better than your wife, and this other guy too.
BTW--I am in love with your dog.