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If you want to get someone's attention, whisper!
Good comments all. Maybe some sponsors of Classic Style will read this.
Mysterygal, I'm glad to hear you and your husband have the same taste in volume. The men I've dated had the TV or radio on all the time.
Some restaurants are still quiet, especially restaurants that have been around for decades.
Maj. Danger, you make a good point about people being prompted to be assertive. There's a time for that, but it isn't all the time.
Lizziemaine, I think you hit the nail on the head about lack of subtlety in our culture.
And LadyDay, strangely enough, the mechanical noise you mentioned doesn't bother me much. I live within a mile of the firehouse, police station and two hospitals, and two blocks from the main drag. I don't even notice the noise from the street.
Scotrace, homo sapien isn't the only species designed for quiet. The dog is also. Once when a kid was riding a motorcycle up and down the alley (which was loud enough to bother me, too), my dog kept running back and forth, barking, and finally came up and put his paws in my lap--something he hardly ever does--as if to say, "Can't you do something about this?"
Sorry I repeated myself about the polo match. I had looked forward to seeing a polo match for the first time, and to seeing the person I invited; we rarely get to visit. The noise took away from the experience.
There was an article in the Wall Street Journal a few months ago about music helping us in athletic performance, but not helping us to think. It certainly doesn't help us converse.
Good comments all. Maybe some sponsors of Classic Style will read this.
Mysterygal, I'm glad to hear you and your husband have the same taste in volume. The men I've dated had the TV or radio on all the time.
Some restaurants are still quiet, especially restaurants that have been around for decades.
Maj. Danger, you make a good point about people being prompted to be assertive. There's a time for that, but it isn't all the time.
Lizziemaine, I think you hit the nail on the head about lack of subtlety in our culture.
And LadyDay, strangely enough, the mechanical noise you mentioned doesn't bother me much. I live within a mile of the firehouse, police station and two hospitals, and two blocks from the main drag. I don't even notice the noise from the street.
Scotrace, homo sapien isn't the only species designed for quiet. The dog is also. Once when a kid was riding a motorcycle up and down the alley (which was loud enough to bother me, too), my dog kept running back and forth, barking, and finally came up and put his paws in my lap--something he hardly ever does--as if to say, "Can't you do something about this?"
Sorry I repeated myself about the polo match. I had looked forward to seeing a polo match for the first time, and to seeing the person I invited; we rarely get to visit. The noise took away from the experience.
There was an article in the Wall Street Journal a few months ago about music helping us in athletic performance, but not helping us to think. It certainly doesn't help us converse.