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Excellent Women by Barbara Pym, first published in 1952
Good fiction encompasses a wide variety of writing styles and topics, but one sleeve includes "small" books that immerse you in the culture of a place and time that is "nothing special" – other than that all places and times are special to those who live in them.
Excellent Women takes you to post-WWII London, but to a not-at-all fashionable or wealthy residential neighborhood. Instead, what were once nice Victorian homes are now mainly carved up into smallish flats like the one occupied by Mildred Lathbury, an early thirties "spinster."
While that word offends today, it was a genuine term of the era and a status Lathbury lives daily. The war has quietly hardened her into a self-sufficient woman who will only marry if she truly believes marriage will improve her life. To wit, wonderfully, she's not desperate to find a man.
That doesn't mean those around her, including her friends and other "excellent women," don't want to find a man for her, but Lathbury knows her own mind and what exactly an excellent woman is...and she's not sure she likes being one, but won't accept a mediocre man.
Never defined, but by implication, an excellent woman is an unmarried middle-class woman of traditional religious/social values who does the necessary "background" work - church, social, charitable efforts – that sustained wartime British society and now keeps it functioning.
These women man the booths at bazaars, prepare group meals at churches, visit the sick and elderly, and mend, fix, and launder things that need mending, fixing, and laundering without asking for applause or compensation beyond a reasonable amount of quiet respect.
There is a modest plot, but the value in Excellent Women is just living in a world you would have no other access to sans a time machine. Despite the war being over, rationing is still in force as England is adjusting to losing its Empire and all the benefits that went along with that.
Tea is the social grout that fills all the spaces: bored, have tea; new visitor, offer him or her tea; the sun is up, have some tea; it's overcast, have some tea. And what do you have with the tea?
Well, that's the problem because of the rationing, so they make do with some awful-sounding things like whale curry. Dear God, who thought of that awful combination? "We have easy access to whale meat." "People hate it." "Put some curry on it." "Sounds like a plan."
You know who doesn't complain? The excellent women don't. They fix the best meal they can and soldier on. The church is having a "jumble sale;" the excellent women arrange it and staff the stalls. A parishioner is old, sick, and alone; an excellent woman helps care for him or her.
Lathbury has even blended social work into her modest job at the Society for the Care of Distressed Gentlewomen. None of that, though, would make a plot, so moving into the flat under Lathbury is a married couple, Helen and Rocky Napier, who are not part of Lathbury's usual social circle.
Yes, it's a "stranger comes to town" plot where Helen, an anthropologist and awful housekeeper, shows Lathbury a different – and reasonably selfish – type of woman, while Rocky introduces Lathbury to a charming man with no real character. She's all but flying blind.
She isn't really, though, as Lathbury is a smart, quiet observer who quickly starts to understand them. She also begins to understand that her rector, Julian Malory, at the High Anglican church she attends is falling for the pretty new subletter who is better at looking good than doing things.
It's a sad observation for an excellent woman to make, but her skills are not highly valued on the marriage market. Her good friend, a "bachelor" (seems g*y, but tricky to write that in this era), could tell her that, as could Everard Bone, an anthropologist she meets through Helen.
Bone is a serious man who goes to Lathbury's church. Also, just back from doing field research in Africa, he is working hard on an academic paper about the trip. He and Lathbury don't flirt – these are not flirty people – but orbit around each other now and then.
Hard for Lathbury is the small community's belief that Malory was supposed to marry her – not how she sees it at all – and that, otherwise, spinsterhood is her likely outcome. Lathbury, with a modern take, despite being very much of her time and place, sees it as her decision.
It's her independent thinking that makes her stand out in a culture that didn't value that in anyone, but especially in modest middle-aged women on a glidepath to total insignificance. It's Pym's way of saying, "You can't make me insignificant if I don't see myself that way."
Pym's writing in Excellent Women, especially its astute look into a tiny corner of British society, echoes that of Penelope Fitzgerald, who also could take a small community and show its connective tissue – the good and the bad – in the nuances and asides of daily life.
What happens to Mildred Lathbury? You'll have to read right to the end, but she stays true to herself in the big picture, while letting others define her more than you will probably like in the smaller picture. Or, maybe she likes hiding in plain sight in her excellent woman costume.


