Drappa
One Too Many
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- Hampshire, UK
Exactly.If I were to call what you are saying "silly" or "truly bizarre", would you find me rude? I think quite a lot of people would.
I disagree. To me, the problem is when others think of them as reduced because they take off their clothes, or simply for being women. That's what objectifying means to me.
It always boggles my mind that those who are offensive try to then determine at which point something becomes offensive. It's not about intent, either. If the offended party finds something rude it is up to them to decide which is acceptable, since the offender's sensibilities are clearly different. Therefore I'd rather err on the side of caution. Or respect and decency.