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Paisley said:Anyone who would have children should first consider whether they will likely be healthy and energetic enough for the next 20 years to take care of them.
Twenty years?! I'll be 58. No big deal. My father was older than I am now when I was born---albeit just a few years.
The other half of the equation is what knowledge can be imparted from an older parent. Both of my parents were past their "what side should I part my hair on this morning" stage. They had lived through a few things and could be counted on to set a good example and follow through.
By high school, my father was retired. Those were the best years of our relationship because he had the time, wisdom and funds to be involved in my life when I needed him.
He and my mother are gone now but I think that age has its advantages in child rearing. Patience is one of them.
Regards,
J