Edward
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Well, here´s a strong opinion against "designated beaters" and very much pro wearing and enjoying only stuff you really like:
It is my experience that SOME women indeed take note of your footwear.
However, I have never experienced that they are interesetd in new/unblemished shoes. They look for what they perceive as quality.
I have quite a few pair of dress shoes that had been relatively expensive. I love them, I care for them, I resole them when they need it, but the leather shows wear and age.
True story: only last week, a co-worker commented how he would not spend more than EUR 150 on a pair of shoes as he would fear he would not like them after a few years. A female colleague pointed at my shoes (a very, very worn pair of Derby´s in oxblood shell cordovan) and said, "But how would you think you would ever come to dislike shoes like this?".
This is where we need to draw a distinction between worn in and worn out. Which is probably not going to be in the same place for everybody!


