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As I was waiting on my hat coming in the post, I remembered an old woman in a movie from decades ago. She was talking to a man in a train compartment and she said she was going to get out and go someplace (can’t remember where exactly) and the man said” are you sure you’re allowed to do that?” and she said “ I’m 82, I don’t ask permission for things”. I’m 69 so I was prepared to use that line if anyone said anything sarcastic etc.. I really enjoyed my first wearing of the hat.Dear Sir:
I'm a man after your own heart. I too wear my fedoras when going to Church, usually on a Sunday, in the SW English market town where I live. I personally feel that a good hat just finishes off a jacket-and-tie sort of outfit, as I feel is appropriate for attending church.
Thinking back on it, many years ago, when I lived in the midwest United States, on a Saturday I would see Orthodox Jewish families walking to Synagogue. All of them (including little children) appropriately dressed. And the husband/father would invariably be wearing a proper dark hat. At the time I reflected how much respect I felt for those people, walking - not driving - to their place of worship in a place where nobody walks. Because. I decided, many years later, to adopt that same sensibility to my own life.
A good, proper hat just finishes off a gentleman.s nice outfit. And yours does the job perfectly.
I am conducting a stealth campaign, one I call "Operation Chapeau". Its really about giving other gentlemen "permission" to wear a proper hat when circumstances or weather suggest. If other men see a gentleman, such as yourself, wearing a good hat, then they themselves might feel empowered to do the same. And we all end up the better.
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