I hope you also told her that no adult of any race should wear their pants that low. It is simply a cheesy look and certainly no conscious statement on race or class.i recently got blasted for decrying the sagging pants. a young woman told me that it was about class and race and that my attitude was racist and another example of white paternalism.
i told her that i realize it started out as an urban/ethnic fad, but that it has moved into the mainstream and is abhorrent.
most disturbing to me are the men my age (40), or older, wearing pants that show off their boxers.
Rather than you being the white devil I think the person you had this conversation has a fair amount of white guilt to deal with.
've also been told, by gansters/convicts that i supervise, that the style originated from oversized "hand me downs" where poor families could not afford better.
what a crock!
i've also been told, by gansters/convicts that i supervise, that the style originated from oversized "hand me downs" where poor families could not afford better.
I have always heard (and I am going to try and say this as safely as humanly possible) that inmates in prison that were willing participants in certain acts wore their pants that way as sort of a non verbal "signal" that it was alright. After they got out of lock up they continued to wear their pants that way and it just became a weird fad. I'm not sure how true that is but it seems to fit. I just remember my dad slapping my cousins upside the head and yelling " pull your pants up son! Don't you know what that means!" when they tried to be cool and wear their pants that way.