In the Era, it was a stereotype of college boys that they didn't wear hats.
"I'm just a college boy
Even at that
I'd tip my hat to you
But I haven't got a hat!
I'm really not a sap
It's plain to see
But if I ever wore a hat
They'd never let me back
In the university.
I think you're swell, I do
I'm standing pat
I'd tip my hat to you
But I haven't got a hat!"
-- popular song, 1935
I am seeing more young people in hats, then ever before. And I am not talking baseball. Just saw a young man when I went to pickup a pizza, wearing a kilt and a top hat!With the exception of baseball caps, I don’t see many kids wearing hats
today as in the past.
FF, you've touched on a reason college graduates tend to do better in life than non-graduates: an endeavor that requires ambition, sacrifice and at least an average IQ attracts people who have certain habits and traits to begin with. Engineering attracts all that plus a certain personality type (introverted, frugal, level-headed, traditional) that tends to keep them from making disastrous decisions.
I don't know much about the daughter in question who got a scholarship to BU, so I'm speaking in general terms here. A parent of modest means might send their child to a community college for a year or two and see how it goes. They may have their limits, but (IME) they attract an older, more serious group of students who are there on their own dime and eager to learn. The class sizes are small, the instructors are accessible, and some of the same instructors teach the same courses out of the same texts at four-year colleges. If it works out, it's a low risk to spend some serious money for the child to go on to a more prestigious school. If it doesn't, Mom and Dad at least won't have to move to a third-world country to retire.
I don't know much about the daughter in question who got a scholarship to BU, so I'm speaking in general terms here. A parent of modest means might send their child to a community college for a year or two and see how it goes. They may have their limits, but (IME) they attract an older, more serious group of students who are there on their own dime and eager to learn. The class sizes are small, the instructors are accessible, and some of the same instructors teach the same courses out of the same texts at four-year colleges. If it works out, it's a low risk to spend some serious money for the child to go on to a more prestigious school. If it doesn't, Mom and Dad at least won't have to move to a third-world country to retire.
That sounds like a very reasonable plan. When you interview / put it on your resume - no one cares where you spent your first years in school (or ever asks), all that matters is where you graduated from. I'm a big fan of community colleges for the reasons you highlight - not a lot of "let's party" nonsense - much more of a let's learn and make this successful approach - for less money.
I don't want to be too elitist, but Paisley is right, once you get up into the "Top 20" range of Universities, people (employers) start caring about where you go (or went).For the most part, once you start working, nobody cares where you went to school--unless it was at a very smart place.
Owning a home isn't a smart decision for everybody. If you're in a shaky job situation, if you don't know where you're going to be in five years, if you can't afford repairs and maintenance, renting is probably a better choice.