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My dad died last Christmas, he never did anything he enjoyed during his life, he never splurged on anything, for him spending money on anything that wasn't a necessity was stupid.
The only extravagent purchase he ever made was buying a Tesla Model 3, ordered it at 68, took delivery at 71, died at 72 having driven it less than 2000 miles. He left 100.000k behind in his current account.
Honestly, the saddest thing about his death was that he iterally never did enything he enjoyed and the only thing he ever spent money on, he didn't get to use because he was too sick to do so.
My cousin always says "there is no point being the richest man in the cemetary" and although my dad was not rich, he ilustrated this point perfectly to me.
I would rather spend some of my money on things i will enjoy during my lifetime than hoard it all and die knowing i never did anything for myself but left a bigger number on my bank account.
I am so sorry to hear that. Sometimes we just pass at the most unfortunate times. I truly do not want to sound materialistic. But I had done ok in life. I grew up always wearing hand-me-downs and during the holidays, my family would receive the very welcomed meal bags. In life, I learned to give and receive with dignity and respect. Personally, I have only purchased one new car in my life. I do however, love to help and assist friends with my life learned construction and mechanical skills. My last life project is to buy a fixer upper sub 40' "blue water boat".
In principle, I stopped buying 1.5k jackets because I rather donate the money to someone who truly needs it. After many visits to low income countries, I have realized that making money and not focusing on my self was something I need it to change. So I retired at 55 after 27 years of teaching. In a low budget I am living my dream. I'm also planing to sell 95% of all of my collections. Regarding my mainly low price jacket "piles", as Terry would say, I will just keep a few that have a very strong sentimental value.
The houses I own I will leave to my children and the vacations sports will be donated to people who I know will change their lives. My low budget approach is what I have chosen. My happiness will be fulfilled when the people I care benefit from my planned decisions. People that know me are happy for me because after all said is done, I lived the way I wanted.
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