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And swearing often is a sure identifier of a native speaker of any language because you might know the swear words in some other language but it seems as if there's a certain vehemence that only a native speaker can attain.
It can be, um, entertaining, to hear a non-native speaker who has picked up much of his or her vocabulary in the company of people who routinely swear. That non-native English speaker might not know not to say certain words in certain company. Saying in good humor to a longtime friend, "c'mon, mother f***er, let's get this show on the road" is quite different in kind than uttering the same phrase to a police officer.
Me, I'll adjust my diction to suit my immediate surroundings. I see a person almost daily who just plain does not swear, leastwise never that I've heard. So I avoid using certain words and phrases in her company. I like this person just fine; she's good and decent and having her around beats not having her around, so I wish her to remain comfortable in my company. I'm not being at all untrue to myself by doing so, either. I'm just greasing the social gears.