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It appears that ButteMT61 and vitanola are better informed on how these things work these days.
Me, I would have difficulty faulting a person for deliberately getting behind on his payments if it was only to force the lender's hand and get him- or herself into a loan arrangement he or she could afford over the long haul. To use ButteMT61's analogy, it's something of a poker game, and all participants are aware of that. (I don't know if that's quite what's happening in the case presented by the OP, though.) Still, considering the degree to which we've let people -- borrowers and lenders, and to a lesser degree appraisers and real estate agents -- get away with their fictions, we really shouldn't be surprised that the whole business has taken on an odor.
Me, I would have difficulty faulting a person for deliberately getting behind on his payments if it was only to force the lender's hand and get him- or herself into a loan arrangement he or she could afford over the long haul. To use ButteMT61's analogy, it's something of a poker game, and all participants are aware of that. (I don't know if that's quite what's happening in the case presented by the OP, though.) Still, considering the degree to which we've let people -- borrowers and lenders, and to a lesser degree appraisers and real estate agents -- get away with their fictions, we really shouldn't be surprised that the whole business has taken on an odor.