Helysoune
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:cheers1: *toasts to Lily* Cheers! That really made me laugh aloud. :eusa_clap
Rachael said:... a friend sent me a note that read "I like my men like I like my coffee: ground up and in the freezer." lol She's single and witty, boys!
Helysoune said::cheers1: *toasts to Lily* Cheers! That really made me laugh aloud. :eusa_clap
Lily Powers said:5. It is important that these four men never meet.
Marc Chevalier said:Someone already did, thank goodness. (See below.)
Goes without saying, yes?
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And I don't know, I don't think it quite goes without saying, for some people it isn't that important, for other people it's one of the most important things...
irb said:intelligence (too much or too little),
pigeon toe said:Things that will win a dude brownie points with me, but aren't necessary, include:
- really into music
- artistic or musically talented
- handsome!
- more outgoing than introverted
- non-religious
Laura Chase said:What, was it bad to be so direct? lol
Laura Chase said:...for some people it isn't that important, ...
Yes! The single most important ingredient to making a relationship, "work" The "ideal" mate for anyone is just simply someone that we like just as they are, that likes us back without having to change anything at all about each other. We often have preconceived notions as to our ideal, but in all my experience, those notions are always tossed out the window anyway.Caity Lynn said:If I can't live with someone as they are, I'm not going to try to change them. Just let them be as they are, and if as they isn't right for you, let it be. I absolutely HATE when people try to change others. I'd rather live alone and have great friends. Than live with someone who will never understand that hidden resentment.
Viola said:Religious compatibility is very important for long-term things. I don't necessarily mean agreement (definitely not in my case, which will be an intermarriage) but mutual respect and some level of value-agreement
Helysoune said:This one, right here:
I snapped this pic of Kevin and his grandma yesterday after Easter lunch here at our house. A bit about my mister...he's a mechanic by trade and Irish by blood. A Star Wars nerd of a caliber comparable to me (we actually met online playing a SW game), he's 6'2" tall and tops me when I'm in heels. He's strong from heavy work and cuddly from the soft spot in his heart he doesn't hide nearly as well as he thinks he does. He looks incredible in a suit and is gifted with a fittingly silver tongue and quick wit. He's tickled pink that I keep him well-fed with homemade goodies and loves when I'm in full on vintage mode.
Edward said:Good for you for being upfront about that. I've been turned down in the past for being religious; the only thing I really minded (cause let's face it, something like that raises major compatability issues) was that the 'lady' concerned didn't have the decency to be honest about it.