Djupis
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A hat. True story.
klind65 said:Hello. To directly answer the question, yes, I would like to wear the neck furs from the 20's with the head and tail and feet attached. I know where to get them and probably will one day wear them....
But I'd also like to address the members who have non-fur items they are afraid to wear. In addition to my skirt suits, I wear white gloves and hats everyday - to work, to shop, to socialize - whatever. I have had only the kindest, most enthusiastic responses from people: male, female, old, young, different races - all types. Some are curious and want to know why I am dressed so well. This always saddens me because it momentarily takes me out of my "own world" and reminds me that I do indeed live in this unfortuante period in which one needs a "reason" to dress well, but not one to dress like a bum! However, I always smile and explain that one doesn't in fact need a reason, and that self-respect and respect for others dictate that one present oneself respectably in public. This always goes over well; I have never ever had a problem. Of course, I am in a large city, still, human nature being what it is, everyone responds positively to beauty. If you look good, people may be curious but I doubt you'll encounter any unkind responses. So, please - be true to your convictions and wear your best. As more people do this, we could actually return the world to its former sartorial glory - everyone in suits and dresses and hats , gloves etc.... Why not? See yourself as a "teacher" of sorts reminding those in a "sheeplike" somnolence - that PRESENTATION MATTERS. Kind wishes, klind65
klind65 said:Hello. To directly answer the question, yes, I would like to wear the neck furs from the 20's with the head and tail and feet attached. I know where to get them and probably will one day wear them.... the only thing which causes me to hesitate is the possiblility of being accosted by anti-fur enthusiasts! I live in NYC and have no problems of that sort since very many ladies wear furs in the winter. But I think people may be more vociferous when the heads and feet are attached! Any advice? Do any of you ladies wear these ? If so, how do you deflect hecklers? I have one riposte at the ready in case the need arises: I smile and simply say, " Judge not, that ye be not judged" (Christ). Its not rude, it simply gets my point accross.
Thanks so much for the photo. You look amazing!! Where did you get that hat? Like you, I always wear hats and gloves everywhere. I once had a hat with a full veil but had trouble keeping the veil up when I was eating or drinking! Kind wishes, klind65chanteuseCarey said:Excellent comments klind65!! I just got one, I call it "my four furry little friends". Here's a picture-
I've only worn it thus far to a recent Art Deco Society lecture, everyone there loved it! Of course that group is a built in appreciative audience.
I do wear my 40s vintage everywhere, and have never gotten a negative comment. I love wearing my vintage hats, gloves and using my 40s purses. I completely agree with you- presentation matters! If WE don't start a more sartorial and well dressed trend, who will??
klind65 said:Thanks so much for the photo. You look amazing!! Where did you get that hat? Like you, I always wear hats and gloves everywhere. I once had a hat with a full veil but had trouble keeping the veil up when I was eating or drinking! Kind wishes, klind65
Gene said:Because I was a teenage punk rocker, I'm still a little shy when it comes to wearing anything too out of the ordinary. I think it's all those looks I got back then that makes me paranoid that everyone is looking at me.
Although I'm getting a little bolder, I still feel that it's more socially acceptable for women to wear vintage clothing than men.
I have just tried to add a photo of a typical outfit complete with gloves and hat. But I don't think it worked.chanteuseCarey said:Excellent comments klind65!! I just got one, I call it "my four furry little friends". Here's a picture-
I've only worn it thus far to a recent Art Deco Society lecture, everyone there loved it! Of course that group is a built in appreciative audience.
I do wear my 40s vintage everywhere, and have never gotten a negative comment. I love wearing my vintage hats, gloves and using my 40s purses. I completely agree with you- presentation matters! If WE don't start a more sartorial and well dressed trend, who will??
chanteuseCarey said:Excellent comments klind65!! I just got one, I call it "my four furry little friends". Here's a picture-
I've only worn it thus far to a recent Art Deco Society lecture, everyone there loved it! Of course that group is a built in appreciative audience.
I do wear my 40s vintage everywhere, and have never gotten a negative comment. I love wearing my vintage hats, gloves and using my 40s purses. I completely agree with you- presentation matters! If WE don't start a more sartorial and well dressed trend, who will??
klind65 said:Hello. To directly answer the question, yes, I would like to wear the neck furs from the 20's with the head and tail and feet attached. I know where to get them and probably will one day wear them.... the only thing which causes me to hesitate is the possiblility of being accosted by anti-fur enthusiasts! I live in NYC and have no problems of that sort since very many ladies wear furs in the winter. But I think people may be more vociferous when the heads and feet are attached! Any advice? Do any of you ladies wear these ? If so, how do you deflect hecklers? I have one riposte at the ready in case the need arises: I smile and simply say, " Judge not, that ye be not judged" (Christ). Its not rude, it simply gets my point accross.
Kind wishes, klind65
Carlisle Blues said:I am aware that you are a New York transplant. Therefore my intention is to assist you in acclimating to the area. As you know it takes all kinds to make this metropolis what it is. There are some who would champion your cause and others who would not. For example your kind words would go unheeded by the person in the picture.
I do not condone this behavior, but, New York is a land of many people and many causes.[huh] I hope this helps answer your situation.