Edward
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It's funny how divided people who care about their clothing are divided about being noticed. Some want to look anonymous and not stand out at all. Others are clearly trying way too hard to look like they have great taste.
I think there's room for all sorts. The ones that annoy me are like the guy who was done for assault on the tube a few years ago. Lost his temper with some kids who took the mickey. He was wearing a waxed tache, loud tweeds, and bright red corduroys, and was enraged that they even noticve he was different. Thing is, if you['re gonig to dress in a way that does really stand out, you have to accept that sometmes, some people will notice it. Also, that they may say things you don't like - often without meaning insult. One of the ladies who lives in our block always compliments me on my "cowboy" hat when I'm in a high-crown fedora. That's just her frame of reference for a wide-brimmed, felt hat. If we're going to dress in a way that sticks out, we have to at least accept that people may notice and comment even if that's not your motive behind it.
TBH, one of the things I loved most about moving to London was that I could just do my thing - paint my nails, wear a brimmed hat, whatever - and it didn't have to be this big statement every time I left the house. I like to do my own thing and I don't much care what other people think, but when half a dozen men in their thirties follow you through a shopping centre thinknig they're clever singing the Inspector Gadget theme at the man in the long coat and the fedora, you have to wonder how empty their lives are.... Belfast has changed a little on that front, though not much.
I'm not really sure which is the right answer. Personally, I don't care. Yes, I believe I dress pretty well and have fantastic taste in clothing and of course I like to showcase that for others of similar taste to me. Any of us who have shown off our new jacket have to admit the same. If you're on this forum and you don't think that, then you severely lack confidence or are fairly new and are here to learn. Of course, I still learn new information about this hobby all the time and am very thankful to this forum for that, but my point is that you should be confident about your clothing to the point where you shouldn't care if someone thinks you are trying too hard or if they mistake you for a normal, tasteless Joe.
Zactly. There are times when it behoves one to dress sensitively to other people's needs: their wedding, your job, all of that. When you're on your own time, please yourself.
No offense intended there Gav and you and I (and probably everyone here) can spot the difference. That's not the point. I've seen guys dressed in $50 worth of thrift store whatever look far more put together than I do in $1.2k jacket, $300 IH jeans and whatever else. Money can't buy style and I don't judge others style based on what I perceive as quality.
That's also true, there certainly is a skill in putting it all together.
None taken. I don’t buy and wear repro, nerd clothes to impress others, I wear this stuff because I like it and because I am fascinated and obsessed with it.
I also enjoy geeking out about repro stuff with other like minded folk.
Bingo.
During the Aero trial, there was a moment where the prosecution were running through the inventory, and they were running through the cost of some archive LVC and Lee jeans when it was decided to break for lunch. The moment the jury, sheriff et al walked out, the clerk of the court turned to me and shouted across to me 'who in their right mind pays £200 for a pair of jeans?'. How we laughed, but, y'know, here we are...
Ho, yes. Amusingly, the more I learn about details, the more I find my own, self-imposed ceiling limits rise. Was a time I lived in combat trousers or jeans for £20, surplus wear. Now I don't bat an eyelid at spending £80 or £90 on a pair of trews because that's what the right cut costs. I remember when the ida of spending £145 on a Wested Indy seemed scandalous. Last Aero I bought cost me £700 and barely a second thought!