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I’ve had very similar problems. And it started just a couple of years ago. I hate to say it but I think the seller backs out because someone made a better offer. And the seller is not honest enough to honor the completed sale. To me it’s an integrity issue. I even had a seller contact me a week later and fessed up. But the twist was the buyer found another hat cheaper so backed out. So then the seller wanted to complete the original sale. I told him I didn’t trust him - so no. After all, it’s just a hat.I love poorly listed hats. Some of my best deals have come from hats that we’re described improperly. I find them because I put in the work. Regardless of an items actual value, if the seller is happy with the price why not make a deal? I also see things different when dealing with someone selling family items and a third party who bought a hat to flip it.
However, I don’t get upset if someone educates a seller. The fact that Im not able to take advantage of their ignorance doesn’t seem like a very moral argument for me to make. How can I say it’s wrong for the seller to get the market price for it? I understand that I might not get an item, or have to pay more for it, but that’s how supply and demand works. Getting upset over someone offering help and a seller getting a fair price just doesn’t seem right to me and goes against my personal religious ethos. At the end of the day, kindness and fairness are more important to me than deals on “stuff.” Just my personal take.
I’ve had very similar problems.
Then there's the issue of running up bids & sometimes getting stuck with things you can't even wear.Maroonn arguments.
I even had a seller contact me a week later and fessed up.
Then there's the issue of running up bids & sometimes getting stuck with things you can't even wear.
I love poorly listed hats. Some of my best deals have come from hats that we’re described improperly. I find them because I put in the work. Regardless of an items actual value, if the seller is happy with the price why not make a deal? I also see things different when dealing with someone selling family items and a third party who bought a hat to flip it.
However, I don’t get upset if someone educates a seller. The fact that Im not able to take advantage of their ignorance doesn’t seem like a very moral argument for me to make. How can I say it’s wrong for the seller to get the market price for it? I understand that I might not get an item, or have to pay more for it, but that’s how supply and demand works. Getting upset over someone offering help and a seller getting a fair price just doesn’t seem right to me and goes against my personal religious ethos. At the end of the day, kindness and fairness are more important to me than deals on “stuff.” Just my personal take.
You find a perfect Maclacklin 100 in an old hat box at a garage sale. You know it is worth well over $1000 but the seller has it tagged as $5. Do you tell the seller the real value or do you buy it and walk away?
You find a perfect Maclacklin 100 in an old hat box at a garage sale. You know it is worth well over $1000 but the seller has it tagged as $5. Do you tell the seller the real value or do you buy it and walk away?
Be happy when you get a deal and enjoy it. Life is too short folks! But that's me, hats don't even rank in my top 100 of things that I care for, they are just that, hats.
I joined the Lounge last year, and they only thing I care about is the great friendships I have made.
The hats could disappear tomorrow and I wouldn't care one bit, but those friendships will always remain.
Be happy when you get a deal and enjoy it. Life is too short folks! But that's me, hats don't even rank in my top 100 of things that I care for, they are just that, hats.
I joined the Lounge last year, and they only thing I care about is the great friendships I have made.
The hats could disappear tomorrow and I wouldn't care one bit, but those friendships will always remain.
It seems it would depend on the size & whether it's your ego or religious ethos that has kicked in.Do you tell the seller the real value or do you buy it and walk away?
All of these arguments are so damn silly. Not one here has ever informed an anonymous seller that a hat they were interested in buying was WAY undervalued and underpriced.