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I just try to live my life and cause as little collateral damage along the way as possible.
That is what I told the IRS last time audited.
I just try to live my life and cause as little collateral damage along the way as possible.
My father too, and a grandfather, a grandmother…
I smoked about 30 years and joined the full cancer harbor boat tour, just pinching my butt was missing…
But even at healthiest possible behavior you’ll though die one sunny day, just at healthiest possible condition…and having caused way higher costs to the social system developing all those wonderful geriatric diseases a smoker, drinker…usually doesn’t grow old enough for.
I once jokingly made the same argument myself, in defense of smoking and drinking and all those other unhealthy habits that would have me and my fellow carousers dead before we grew old and became a strain on the healthcare system.
But I gave all that up when the deadly consequences became a more personally concrete matter than something that might happen to some other people someday.
Bad things are what happen only to other people, until they happen to you.
Over the past decade and a half I have made much greater use of the healthcare system than I can ever hope to repay, and for as long as I remain alive I will continue to be a burden on my society, at least in this regard.
I’ve known too many people who lived much more healthily than I did, only to suffer massive heart attacks in their 40s or 50s or to have contracted HIV before effective therapies came around or who met with some other premature end. There’s no dismissing the role of luck, or lack thereof.
Going to get my third vaccination shot tomorrow morning. Just living a little safer, just a little easier access to medical facilities.
Forgot to update my health status!
So. Contrary to what I was told for YEARS, I do NOT have rheumatoid arthritis. I finally went to the Mayo Clinic last year at this time and was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. My health has progressively gotten worse since I wrote this post in 2017. I now work from home full-time and do not expect that to ever change. There's really no cure for what I have - just have to deal with it. I walk every day (unless my body simply can't do it) and I think that's helped. I've tried a few different meds and because I metabolize meds so different to others, they simply don't work. So I'm trying to manage it as best as I can through gentle exercise, rest, and keeping my stress levels low.
I was a little upset when I found out I didn't have RA and they'd been giving me drugs to treat me for it when I DIDN'T HAVE IT. It really does suck to be a medical mystery. But I'm very thankful that I was able to go to the Mayo Clinic and get properly diagnosed.
Finally knowing brings some peace of mind. It also allows for a more precise and effective treatment plan.Forgot to update my health status!
So. Contrary to what I was told for YEARS, I do NOT have rheumatoid arthritis. I finally went to the Mayo Clinic last year at this time and was diagnosed with fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome. My health has progressively gotten worse since I wrote this post in 2017. I now work from home full-time and do not expect that to ever change. There's really no cure for what I have - just have to deal with it. I walk every day (unless my body simply can't do it) and I think that's helped. I've tried a few different meds and because I metabolize meds so different to others, they simply don't work. So I'm trying to manage it as best as I can through gentle exercise, rest, and keeping my stress levels low.
I was a little upset when I found out I didn't have RA and they'd been giving me drugs to treat me for it when I DIDN'T HAVE IT. It really does suck to be a medical mystery. But I'm very thankful that I was able to go to the Mayo Clinic and get properly diagnosed.
You got this!!! Sending you strength!!!Finally knowing brings some peace of mind. It also allows for a more precise and effective treatment plan.
Crazy how an old thread pops up to the surface huh?
I'm 25 radiation treatments into what will be a 39 treatment plan for prostate cancer.
I found it early through yearly screening when my PSA level shot up. I've heard that every man who lives long enough will have prostate problems.
I'm confident that I'm going to beat this thing.
I caught it early and treating it aggressively. Nothing to it but to do it.
Hang tuff AmateisGal.
I'm so glad you found some relief! I'm on a new forum now for those with ME/CFS, and last night I just read a new study put out by Mayo. Oddly enough, though I absolutely hate that long Covid exists, it has led to people developing ME/CFS and that might mean that more money is put into researching it. Money talks, unfortunately, and with a significant portion of people now affected with this, I'm sure pharmaceutical companies will see dollar signs.Hi, you may remember me as Old Mariner (I posted before in your thread). I am glad to hear you *finally* got a diagnosis. I dealt with both FM (fibromyalgia) and ME/CFS (chronic fatigue) - I just deal with the latter now. There is a website I learned of that may be of help called Science4ME. I used to be at their forum, but since I live alone and isolated due to location (aside from circumstances) I could not offer much.
No there is no cure for ME/CFS. I learned that a few months back while on Twitter, as I followed a number of ME/CFS people and organizations. All one can really do is make adjustments to one's life and find what works for them as far as diet and supplements, which is what I managed to accomplish through trial and error.
I put myself on my own anti-inflammatory diet that I came up with (I was already mostly there anyway, just needed to make a few tweaks). I started that in May and 5 days in I felt a major difference. Kept up with it and while my weight stayed the same, my waist went from a 36 to 33. So, I wound up buying pants again in October. I also fully stopped drinking that month as well since there was no buzz anymore and just pain. (ME/CFS is a neuro-inflammatory condition from what I have lerned.)
It does suck living with something for which there is no cure. I was hoping that I would be able to heal myself fully, but knowing that I am just going to do what I can. I got tattoos in August & Sept., and plan to get more, as a way of enjoying my 'broken' body.
I hope that you're able to find a method that helps you 'push back' the symptoms enough that you can enjoy life a bit more.
That's what I found out when I was on Twitter and followed a lot of ME/CFS folks and organizations. Incidentally, in mid-August, I got the Moderna booster (my original Covid shots were J&J). After enduring extreme pain for a period of time, once those effects wore off, I wound up feeling better than I did *before* I had the shot. I asked my dr. about it and he mentioned about it being of possible help to those who had Covid, and it helping with residual virus left in the body. Since this happened, I plan to get another booster when the time comes.I'm so glad you found some relief! I'm on a new forum now for those with ME/CFS, and last night I just read a new study put out by Mayo. Oddly enough, though I absolutely hate that long Covid exists, it has led to people developing ME/CFS and that might mean that more money is put into researching it. Money talks, unfortunately, and with a significant portion of people now affected with this, I'm sure pharmaceutical companies will see dollar signs.
^^^^ Get better, old friend. You need to be dancing by Christmas!