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I never really thought or cared about what would happen to my body after I die; scoop out the viable organs, give 'em to whoever needs them, and dump my dead carcass wherever you can. Whenever anyone asked, I'd always jokingly say, "Oh, that'll be someone else's problem," because I don't follow any specific religions, so it's a rather open-ended question. Then I met the woman who would become my wife--a Catholic woman--and suddenly plans had to be made "just in case". That never happened--not for me, nothing "set in stone", anyway--so nothing changed except I now had a wife, and she would be responsible for making the arrangements. Then, after nearly 41 years of marriage, my wife died. Her plan, in accordance with "Catholic Law", was always to be embalmed, her body placed in a proper casket, then buried in "hallowed ground". But Catholic cemeteries now allow cremated remains to be interred, so that became the new plan...for her, anyway. Got an urn, got a plot, got a marker, had a funeral, urn and ashes placed in the ground (with the proper Catholic rituals and incantations performed, of course) and covered with dirt. Done. Now I just have to find someone to do the same with my remains after I've kicked the proverbial bucket, and make sure my urn goes into the ground next to hers. As good a resolution as any other; done.
Or so I thought...
Or so I thought...