I think you can probably wear more vintage than you think. Most people aren't like us and would not notice the difference.
Start any sartorial eccentricity on your first day of work, otherwise your colleagues will think you've gone ga-ga when, six months after starting the job, you show up in vintage attire.
I want to be careful though as I fought hard to get this job and the last thing I want to do is lose it because the managers think I look unprofessional. I don't think I'll ever wear bow ties to work (I'll save them for nights out) but I have no problem wearing the hat to the office as I'll take it off inside anyway. Most of my suits and ties don't look too unusual to the untrained eye anyway so I can wear vintage from day one without sticking out.Start any sartorial eccentricity on your first day of work, otherwise your colleagues will think you've gone ga-ga when, six months after starting the job, you show up in vintage attire.
I was told it is rude to outdress the wedding couple.
But then you're not in the habit of regularly wearing morning dress or white tie are you ? I think Flo meant that wearing formalwear when the groom wears a lounge suit is rude. If you wear a jacket and tie (or any of your usual combinations) to a wedding and end up outdressing the couple then it's just a clear sign that they aren't taking their own wedding seriously in my opinion.That's hillarious! I'd never ever dress down just because I might be outdressing someone if I didn't. Not if what I'm wearing is compliant with my general style of dress. It's not my fault that people chose to attend a wedding in shorts and flip-flops (I'm exaggerating, I know, but still...).
Yes.I think Flo meant that wearing formalwear when the groom wears a lounge suit is rude.
Maybe. I think many people just don't have a good taste and don't care about clothes as much as we do. I can't blame them. They probably think other "values" are more important.... then it's just a clear sign that they aren't taking their own wedding seriously in my opinion.