"The young man knows the rules; the old man knows the exceptions."
My suggestions here are geared toward beginners on the idea that it's better to start out slow and structured and then move on to different counts and faster beats when the basics are mastered.
I enjoyed reading your posts...
Music to Practice By
You should follow your own taste in music and play what makes you feel like dancing, even if it's silly. Today's culture is Very Serious; during the Depression and WWII, life was serious enough and many people danced with craziness to relieve stress. It doesn't matter if...
Yes, yes!
Lindy is step, step, triple step; step, step, triple step. It is an eight count dance where the man usually starts with a rock step and the lady usually starts with a sugar step (or some other styling).
East coast (or jitterbug) is side, side, rock step (or slow, slow...
I'm not Juliet Prouse, but since there seems to be a fair amount of interest in dancing here, I'll pass along some tips I think will be helpful.
Finding an instructor
It's hard to know whether an instructor is a good dancer if you are a newbie. You can ask for credentials (the winners of...
Your son should remember that not everything you learn today is going to be used tomorrow. Learning dancing today is going to help him when he is a little older--when he wants to go out and dance at his prom or a wedding, or just to go out and meet people (OK, girls). And some things are easier...
Not only do kids not need to go everywhere their parents go, they don't necessarily want to. I had to sit through plays and concerts and the occasional church service when I was in grade school, and it felt like a punishment: I was restless and bored, but I knew I couldn't squirm around. I...
I agree that dancing (or whatever the kid is into) should be a joy, not a chore. (I know--I was kept in piano lessons for four years after I lost interest.)
When Judge Judy was a little girl, she, like all the little girls in her neighborhood, was sent to dance lessons. She says she had two...
A lot of ladies nowadays tend to clomp, and young women especially seem to slump instead of standing up straight. Standing up straight makes you look taller and leaner and more confident. It's also better to walk gracefully, letting your muscles (not your joints) act as shock absorbers. You know...
I have wide, kind of oddly shaped feet. I just have to find shoes that fit from the get-go.
I really like Clarks. This has a vintage look:
This looks like a comfy sandal:
"Note: People have a mild natural tendency to dance with people they already know, just because it's easier. This gives an initial appearance of cliquishness at the local dances -- but in almost all cases it's a false impression, and the dancers are happy to dance with anyone who knows even...
A friend of mine--nearly 40 years old an no prude--has become really disenchanted with the looking-for-a-good-time approach. She's normally a cheerful, lovely person, then gets involved with some guy, and ends up feeling lousy about herself.
A Word from the Grande Dame
Here is Miss Manners' take on it:
A Childproof Wedding Reception
Wednesday, March 7, 2007; Page C09
Dear Miss Manners:
I will be ordering my wedding invitations soon and hope that you can clear up a question about the proper etiquette for the wording...
My dog is part of my family. Wouldn't it be funny if he grabbed the bride's veil and ran off with it, knocked over the cake and barked at the groom? It would be a wedding to remember!
Nevertheless, I will wait until he is invited before I bring him.
Avoiding the Bumps
A few tricks to avoid bumping into someone:
Look where you're going. If you are doing the Charleston or moving backward or otherwise putting one of your feet way behind you, you need to look behind you.
Take little steps. A common newbie mistake is to take steps that...
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