barnabus
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Thanks barnabus. I turned 48 this past summer so things may be tricky but I am thinking of going back to school. Not back to university but maybe something at a tech college perhaps. I don't want hefty student loans at my age.
I worked in the non-ferrous steel industry which in my area is greatly tied to the oil and petrochemical industry which is tanking here in Canada right now.
To be honest, I've wanted to quit for a while since there was quite a bit of negativity and racism in my office so the past few years have been grinding away at my soul. I did not want to quit since I'd have to find something asap so when I was told my division is being shut down and I'd be getting a good severance package, I felt a weight lift off my shoulders.
So similar!
I'm 49. I worked in the metal finishing side of the engineering/manufacturing industry.
I'd wanted to quit for years, but as family provider I had the fear of not meeting my responsibilities, and trepidation for what I could do if I left a "comfortable" living. And yet my job was ruining me: huge stress that left me angry even at home, superiors that shirked their responsibilities onto me, overwhelming tiredness, genuine fear of the repercussions of any errors from my staff, endless insomnia and anxiety. I ended up on prescription meds.
I've found something else now and I'm 100% happier. I don't earn anything like as much, but boy, life is better. As you say, a weight off my shoulders!
Seriously man: the best of luck. There's more to life than a comfortable income.


